What comes first, the lobola or the proposal? | Rules of engagement
What came first... The chicken or the egg? In this day and age a similar debate unfolds; what comes first... the lobola or the proposal? When you have the marriage discussion with your partner for the first time, surely you would discuss your cultural backgrounds as these tend to determine the order of the engagement-lobola process? Back in the day, lobola *WAS* the engagement. Your partner asking you if he/she […]
